Secondly, it is your obligation as a parent to create an environment for your children for them to learn how to hear God’s voice for themselves. Remember they have their own soul and destiny to fulfill. Children learn where they live: if they live in a hostile home environment, they will soon learn to start fighting. If they live with criticism they will soon learn how to ridicule. Be like a thermostat; constantly adjust the emotional, intellectual and spiritual atmosphere of your home environment. Very important task; you cannot lead one to where you have not been yourself. This in essence means that you must have learned how to hear God for yourself as well. Thirdly and equally important is to position your children towards their destiny by constantly adjusting their sails. Get involved in everything that encompasses their lives. Inculcate in them godly virtues; guide them by asking questions that direct their attention; build self confidence and self esteem in them.